I’d like to start a new social meme that looks at cynicism as mildly immature and definitely not hip. Let’s equate cool with faith in each other and humanity as a whole, willingness to be engaged, and non-violent social skills. Let’s drop “king of the heap” and “I know more jargon than you” games. Let’s also drop “we’re all doomed” and “nothing matters anyway”. That won’t get us there.

We have a long way to go as a species.

The next few decades are crucial. We need to:

1. change the material basis of our society so it is clean ie non-polluting ie zero waste
2. consciously realize we have enough
3. change our social, economic, and justice systems to become non-violent and meet the needs of everyone at the cost of no-one

Here is what will help:

• beginner’s mind
• curiosity
• collaboration
• seeing it as a process
• willingness to forgive ourselves and each other the unequal rates of learning as our whole species gets up to speed on rapidly changing paradigms

Let’s stop being afraid of the future as if we are victims of it, and get down to the the work of creating the future we want.

Everybody say “yeah!”.

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What is it?

Guaranteed income is the idea that the government would provide a basic level of health and wellbeing to every citizen of the country, guaranteed. It wouldn’t be welfare, because everyone would get it. It would provide a basic safety net for everyone, period. And it would let anyone who was working on something that wasn’t directly or immediately profitable (education, art, theoretical ideas with no practical purpose yet) be supported without stressing about money. And it wouldn’t stop anyone who wanted to earn more from working a normal job. People can still be as consumerist as ever - just no one will be in abject poverty.

Why is it important?

1. We are losing millions of good ideas and productive hours to poverty, and everything that goes along with it (drugs, crime, etc). This is just plain stupid.

2. We are losing many brilliant contributions from creative people who just can’t figure out how to make a decent living that still gives them time and mental energy to spend on their creativity. While it’s possible to figure out how to make a living without working 8 hours a day (passive income), it takes effort and mindset changes (here’s my blog on that). Many people compromise by working part-time at menial jobs so they can keep their brain juice for their real work - or they work at jobs that take all their brain power and just give up developing original thoughts. With guaranteed income, people would at least have the option to devote themselves to developing their gifts. We’d all benefit.

3. A fundamental shift in conscicousness becomes possible if you are not always worrying about your material survival. Think of Maslow’s hierarchy: safety and food are on the bottom. They form the foundation. You just can’t really relax and spend all your brain on higher things if you are worried about survival. Almost every person in this country has a small part of their brain that is devoted to worrying about the possibility that they might end up homeless someday, because there just isn’t a safety net. How many man-hours are spent thinking about, comparing, shopping for insurance? Or worrying that somehow, someway, something might happen and insurance wouldn’t cover it and then bam. How secure do you really feel? How would it change your mind if you really had the safety of knowing that no matter what happened, you would always be able to take care of your basic needs? Even if your family was gone, and you got hit by a bus?

4. How would it change our national mindset if we all felt that we take care of our own people no matter what? I think it hurts all of us in ways we don’t realize to walk by homeless people every day and become inured to it. It takes away a little bit of our humanity every day.

5. We are going towards more and more automation. We don’t need everyone to be working all the time. How much of what people are doing is pointless busywork anyway? What if you had them quit and go home and do a better job raising their kids? Everyone would benefit.

6. This is not just a hippie idea. Many Nobel-winning economists support it.

Here are some links to learn more:

• Freedom, not Full Employment - well worded concise arguments
• Basic Income Earth Network definition of Basic Income
• What is the Basic Income Guarantee? - more technical; discusses implementation strategies
• Wikipedia entry

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Most debates between “religious” people and “scientific” people are horribly boring:

RP: God exists! It’s obvious! <lists evidence>

SP: God doesn’t exist! It’s obvious! <lists evidence>

I find it about as interesting as “Bush is evil!” discussions.

Why does this happen?

Let’s look at it from NVC: a conflict is generally caused by a misunderstanding of needs vs strategy and a deficiency of empathy. On both sides, people have been bashing each other the head with their views for a long time and seeing the other side as somewhat less than fully human. One side sees the other as corrupted by faith (irrational ninnies), and the other as corrupted by science (godless heathens). This is what keeps the various sides from reaching understanding.

How do we get somewhere new?

Curiosity. Be the first one to offer openness rather than judgment, curiosity rather than contradiction, dialog rather than dismissal. But it has to be genuine. If you believe you already know whatever it is that the other person will say, what they have experienced, why they believe what they do, or have a pet theory that they are all deluded or in need of a psychological crutch, that you know the real truth and they are wrong, or their ideas are “dangerous”, then it won’t work.

An open mind is one that is genuinely willing to be changed. A real dialog always changes the hearer, because new information comes to light–things you didn’t know you didn’t know. If you aren’t willing for your mind to be changed, then your mind is closed.

Sometimes it boils down to semantics.

I have had conversations with people who are staunch, irrefutable atheists. If I talk about God I get a stone wall (ouch!). I ask them if they have ever had a spiritual experience. Nope, and that’s all hogwash.

But then (maybe as part of a different discussion so I get an honest answer), I say hey, have you ever had a moment like this, maybe you were out hiking out in the country, and the light sparks over the horizon and things light up just so and everything seems to just fit, and you find yourself smiling, because the whole world seems to somehow make sense and work together even when it doesn’t and it’s like you can feel that perfection inside you too?

Yeah, that’s happened to me.

Well OK that’s what I mean by “a spiritual experience”. This is what I’m talking about!

Scientific fundamentalism is just as frustrating as religious fundamentalism.

I want to shout out to all the geeks and scientists who haven’t questioned their assumptions about God, “Hey, there is more to God than Christianity, there is more to God than you think”. There is usefulness in the various understandings about this thing people call God. It’s a helpful concept, and not just in a “helps people feel better about the meaningless void of existence” kind of way. The thing that mystics have been getting in touch with isn’t make-believe. Real mystics tend to be very smart, very aware people. They experience an intuitive sensation of the reality that physicists are discovering right now–that everything is connected. How do they sense it? That is the part that we are going to figure out eventually, but that doesn’t make the sensing of it impossible. Just poorly researched.

But I don’t believe it’s only mystics and monks who can feel the existence of God, and I don’t mean “God a dude with a white beard” but “God the interconnectedness of everything”. I think that’s an experience most people have felt at one time or another, and an experience that can be cultivated (no drugs necessary). Be curious about it. See what happens.

And let’s all stop trying to be in the “in” club of skepticism. Skepticism and pessimism are boring. They are positions based in fear of being ridiculed.

Risk a little. Be curious about God. Let’s figure out what is really going on in this Universe.

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What is the overlap between transparency and authenticity? This question was posed to me by a friend today.

First I responded within my NVC-hippy framework: “authenticity is what-is-alive-in-me; transparency is a conscious choice I make to share that because that is the kind of world I want to live in.”

This is true, but I am aware with recent urgency that not everyone is going to share my hippie values. And yet transparency is a huge part of the blogoshere culture. So why is transparency valuable to non-hippies?

Today I met Justin at Beer and Blog and he suggested that transparency is a communications strategy that emerges as necessary at a certain point. Duh! It’s not just a feel good thing, it’s a pragmatic thing.

Transparency becomes important at a certain level of complexity. It’s about moving forward quickly and problem solving within complex territory. The more data you have out in the open, the more everybody knows what is going on and can make use of that data quickly. Example: open source = code transparency.

Once you get to a certain point, anything less than transparency just doesn’t make sense. If you want to move forward, everyone needs access to the data.

This takes transparency out of the space of values and authenticity and into the realm of plain old effectiveness. Which I think is the realm that will win, because geeks will rule the next world order and geeks bottom line at pragmatism.

It also takes us out of the messy space of politics. I think politics will eventually be dead as we all learn that it just doesn’t matter and that “what other people think about me is none of my business”. I am defining politics here as “the codification of taking things personally”. I’m talking about things like identity politics and political correctness, not things like voting. When the whole world realizes, at the same time, that what is most effective is to do what you are doing and let other people do what they are doing, then transparency will become a lot easier and more effective. But until then, I’m going to practice it anyway, and hone my ability to take nothing personally.

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On the leading edge of geekdom and philosophy are ideas like the singularity, the transhumanist movement, and the noosphere. I believe it’s all going to happen, and quicker than we realize.

What I see is a bunch of geeks discussing spiritual concepts, mystical concepts, but there still being an untouchable aura of taboo around the idea of spirituality or God.

Then I see mystics and “woo-woo” people understanding these concepts on an intuitive level, but not having the clarity or discipline to discuss them in a way that geeks can grok.

I want to bridge the gap.

I want to talk about God in a way that makes sense, in a pragmatic, reality-based way. In a “what is really going on here, in this Universe?” kind of way.

I also see therapists and healers of various persuasions, as well as conflict resolution people and communication experts talking about really helpful stuff that could make the technological revolution go smoother. And I see it getting dismissed or just not given the same level of importance as technological innovation or business innovation. But it is important, and it will only become more important as our world changes.

I want to translate mysticism and emotional healing work into a language that geeks get, and encourage geeks everywhere to investigate these topics. They matter. And to investigate with an open mind first. Curiosity first, before criticism. In the new integral world we are creating, every perspective matters. Every field holds some of the truth, and only through sharing openly and non-judgmentally will we all learn what we need to learn to move forward. It’s a blind-men-and-the-elephant kind of thing.

Join me. Talk with me. Let’s figure out how we can create a world that rocks.

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We all need a manifesto. Here’s mine.

Joy matters.

There is something inside you that wants to be born. There is a purpose for your existence–a purpose nobody else can serve. How do you find that purpose? Joy.

Joy matters to our success as individuals.

Joy is our built-in homing device that tells us what matters to us and what feeds us. Joy tells us we are on the right path–our path. Joy tells us when we are fully alive. Joy tells us when we are operating to our full potential.

Joy matters to our success as a species.

Joy is the prime motivator. You cannot ever motivate someone to work as hard with punishment, fear, scarcity, or promise of reward as a person is motivated when they are in love with the work they are doing. People working out of a feeling of joy move mountains. They work because they want to, not because they have to, and this makes a huge difference in both productivity and creativity.

Joy can be cultivated.

Our culture has largely forgotten about joy and is focused instead on:

1. avoiding pain
2. seeking pleasure

Neither of these will get you to joy. Joy isn’t something that you can find outside yourself. Joy is internally generated. It also cannot be found through avoiding pain. However, joy can be cultivated with conscious intent. Joy is what happens when you start following your internal directives. When you listen to your heart, and follow where it leads, joy is the natural result.

Joy is the next revolution.

People are tired of settling for “secure” or “comfortable”. Life can be more, and we want more. Not more stuff–but rather more aliveness, more authentic happiness, more time to enjoy ourselves, and more of the experience of internal peace and joy that comes from doing what we love. As our society creates more abundance, people refuse to settle for goals that come from pain and scarcity. We are starting to ask “how can we truly enjoy life?” and finding new answers.

Joy starts with your decision that joy matters.

If you aren’t 100% happy about the life you are living, then do something about it.

If you want to do something that matters to you, begin it. If you want a thriving community of people you jive with, start building it. If you want a lifestyle that feeds your soul, start creating it.

Most importantly, decide that you will not settle for anything less than what your heart truly wants from life.

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